Death and Beyond

Mark 12:18-27, 1 Cor 15:35-44

One of the hardest things we face in our lives is that at some point we have to say goodbye. At some point we have to call it quits and take a new journey into the unknown of what lies beyond. One of the realities that hasn’t changed all through the ages is that mortality rates for every living creature including ourselves has remained at 100%. No amount of research and scientific discovery has managed to budge this figure.

One of the surprising things is that in a world where we seem keen to break every taboo in terms of what we talk about and what we parade in the media, death remains something we hide from. Our society seems to keep hoping that death will somehow remain over the horizon. I simply want to make the assertion that a healthy view of death helps us live healthy lives. John Calvin the great reformer used to say take a walk in a cemetery at least once a week – it’s good for the soul. Dying shouldn’t be discussed in hushed tones, but should be a reality we accept. A healthy view of dying us will enhance our living and often will help us die well, and our religion should help us find this life and confidence in the face of death. God’s Spirit proclaims a message of hope not fear. “The law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus,” Paul said, “has set you free from the law of sin and of death.”

I wonder what he meant by set you free from the law of death. I think it’s something like this: The Spirit of Jesus, or what we know as the Holy Spirit will move within us to help us face death with hope, not fear, with a deep confidence not anxiety. Jesus has walked through death and come out the other side. It is not a full stop.
It is also not a removal to some far off place called heaven where we wander around in white robes and playing golf all day. Being set free means simply trusting God that all will be well.

The Spirit whispers…
Death is a part of life. Dying is how things are supposed to be. There are deaths that happen far too soon and in ways that God does not desire. There is tragedy in life and I don’t think of us can fully understand why. But dying is part of living and in the end we have to step aside and let someone else have a turn. In the natural order of things we wear out and we have to let go and let another generation take over. As leaves on the tree we do our bit to bring life to the tree but in the end we have to let go and drop to the earth to let new buds burst forth with new leaves. This is how life works.

The Spirit whispers…
Death is a mystery. What actually happens in death remains mystery. Jesus spoke of resurrection and evidenced this in his own life. The Sadducees tried to rubbish Jesus on this point. They were a group of Jewish intellectuals who were strict about keeping the laws and following scripture. They had no place for people who talked about a new fangled idea called resurrection. Read your scriptures they would say and a careful reading of much of the Old Testament would indeed back them up. So who would you be married to in the afterlife they questioned Jesus if you had multiple wives. Good practical question but as Jesus answers it’s not as straightforward as that. What follows isn’t continuation of what is. He simply says our forefathers in the faith like Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob are alive in God. It’s an interesting answer because Jesus refuses to give a clear picture of how or what death entails, other than to say we are gathered into God’s eternal life.

Paul picks up this mystery in his letter to the Corinthians. He claims we simply have no way of knowing exactly what lies ahead because it’s like entering another dimension of this world. He uses the analogy of the seed dying. You plant a seed and next thing you see the seed changed into a plant. You could never guess what that transformation looks like by looking at the seed. The resurrection life is quite different and yet it is closely linked to what went before. Our creeds talk of Jesus’ resurrection as a physical resurrection – his continuing life is still intimately linked to this earth and is not about some removed far off heaven.

I expect there will be some awareness of reunion with our loved ones. When I am with dying people I often hear stories of loved ones visiting or waiting but our individuality is different when we die into God. I have a hunch that dying is a bit like being gathered up by a giant wave of warmth and love. I like the images contained in our faith of being called home or returning to the source, but don’t ask me to explain these images in every last detail. They are metaphorical images. The deepest things in life are all about metaphorical images.

The Spirit whispers…..
Death involves judgment. In recent years we have reports from people who have died and been resuscitated again. Often these people talk of travelling down some sort of tunnel and becoming aware of a wonderful light and warmth and love. A welcoming home. But they will often talk of their life being reviewed before them and of judging their own lives in the presence of love. I am aware that some say all this is simply chemical interaction in the brain but I don’t think it’s that simple. Jesus too talked of judgment and in our heritage that has taken the form of images of being cast into hell. I sat with someone dying a while ago who was clearly uncomfortable about dying. I think they contemplated the possibility that they were somehow not good enough to be welcomed into God’s arms. Like all of us they knew they could have done better. Hindsight is a wonderful thing and like most of us there were things in their life they were not proud of. Would they get the thumbs up or the thumbs down? Hell pictured this way is an unhelpful image. I lived in Jerusalem for a few months and one day took a walk to hell. I need to explain. There was (actually there still is) a rubbish dump on the outskirts of Jerusalem called Gehenna where there was a constant fire burning and wild animals ran around gnashing teeth. Gehenna in our English bibles is called hell. It was a rubbish dump. It is a good thing for us to let stuff go from our lives. The failure to use our gifts well, the fears that have imprisoned us, the relationships that have gone bad. I believe in death there will be a chuck out of stuff in our lives to be forgotten and cast on the rubbish heap. This purifying fire may surprise us with some bitter truths. But I think there will be some other surprises. Many who think of themselves as nothing special, and I look out and see a whole host of you here, will discover that all those deeds of kindness, the moments when you put others first are remembered and celebrated by God.

God’s judgment is not a matter of punishment or an instrument of torture but is a restoring judgment. People who have had near death experiences and experienced the judgment of their lives invariably have new energy to live more meaningful lives. Judgment motivates and reminds us that the choices we make matter. The choices we make have consequences and the tradition of talking about judgment in death should energise us to discover what is of real value in our mission of loving and healing God’s world. It is to encourage us to use our wealth to make others rich, not to hoard it, to use our power to encourage others not to pull them down, to give of ourselves to enhancing the gift of life in ourselves in others and in all the earth.
So dying… We die into God. We will enter into a goodness so good, a richness so rich, a holiness so holy, a mercy and love so strong and true that all of our pride, lust, greed, resentment and fear will instantly be melted out of us. We will at that moment understand how deep is God’s love.

We die into God and this future is described by another image in our scriptures, and that is the image of a great banquet around God’s table of joy. It is an image of acceptance, feasting, communion, equality, aliveness, festivity. Trust God and know those who have gone before us, and every one of us will discover a love that will not let you go when our turn comes to cross the great divide..

Dugald Wilson 11 Nov 2018

Was there something that stood out for you in the address today?

Talk with a friend about your experiences and your fears about death. Talk together about what you think happens at death and what images surrounding death are important for you…..

What have you been taught about God’s judgment. Do you think of judgment as punishment or as purification?

Imagine God as a wonderful warm presence of love that holds all those who go before us and rest in that presence.

Sunday 18th November 2018

While our Church Building is Repaired we are meeting each Sunday at The Mineral & Lapidary Club 110 Waltham Rd (next to Waltham School) at 10am.

We would love to have the opportunity to welcome you.

 

Sunday 18th November 2018

NOTICES:  A very warm welcome to all who worship with us today. Please join us for morning tea after the service. Many thanks to Rev Alan Webster for leading our worship this morning.

 Thank you to the Worship committee for this morning’s delicious breakfast.

 Latest Building News…The extra steel reinforcing has been installed in the west wall. Helifix ties will be installed this week. The new drains and sewer have been installed. Work will now proceed to complete laying a sealed parking area outside the Office.

Have you seen the new red doors on the church. These add a real splash of colour. Good choice!

The suspended ceiling in the church is nearly installed. We can now proceed to install electrical equipment (lighting, heating, sound system). Warren Pettigrew has been installing small diode lights in the street facing small windows that form a cross.

Kitchen joinery will be installed at the end of the month along with floor coverings.

We are planning to hold our Christmas Services in the church, but the official opening will be on Sunday 27th January 2019.

New Sunday readers’ roster available today – please check to see if there is one for you.

 Wednesday Walkers 21st November Meet 9.30am near 20a Victors Road for a walk around Hoon Hay led by Judy Livingstone, who will host us for morning tea.

Session meets this Wednesday 21st November 7.30pm at Merchiston.

 Christmas Gifts for Waltham Cottage.    These gifts for men, women, teenagers and children can be brought to Church from next Sunday 25th November, and on 2nd and 9th December.    Toiletries, clothing, toys, books, biscuits, sweets etc.  All the things you would like to receive.

Opawa-St Martins Anglican Parish Spring Fair Saturday 24th November 8.30am at St Anne’s Church, 7 Wilsons Rd.

Risingholme Singers Christmas Concert Saturday 24th November in the Heaton Intermediate School Performing Arts Centre at 8pm.  A varied programme of Christian and light music will be presented with a very special bracket of lute music. Tickets $15 at the door or from John Shanks.

The St Albans Community Choir together with the New Brighton Silver Band invite you to “Carol our Christmas – Unusual carols from many lands”. Sunday 25th November 5pm at St Paul’s Parish Church, 1 Harewood Road. Admission by donation to a local charity.

50s Up Brass 25th Anniversary Christmas Concert Wednesday 28th November, 11am-12noon at the Woolston Club, Hargood Street. Entrance $5 or gold coin. See Bob Kayes for more details.

Ethical Christmas Market Saturday 1st December 4-8pm at South West Baptist Church, 244 Lyttelton St, Spreydon.

New Strategic Mission Plan being prepared…The Session has been discussing a new Strategic Mission Plan for  our parish. This plan draws on the work of the Mission Discernment Group, and the report of Peter Burley. We are looking to approve eight goals for the next two years. These are:

Build relationships and enhance life in the South Christchurch Community through activating the church complex as a Community Centre.

Initiate a regular worship and hospitality event for seniors (80+) to connect with God and build bonds of community with each other.

In all our activities we will increase our awareness of a God dimension.

Initiate a regular “Time to be Still” that focuses on spiritual practices of quietness and listening to the inner voice of God.

Initiate a “Caring for Creation” action group to study, discern, and promote sustainable living practices

Enhance the ability of members to talk openly and honestly about faith and being a disciple of Jesus.

Initiate community singing activities with a spiritual

Employ a leader to initiate a new church seedling that focuses on young families.

Please talk with Session members about these proposed goals. We will initially look at how we might implement the first three goals.

 

 

Sunday 11th November 2018

While our Church Building is Repaired we are meeting each Sunday at The Mineral & Lapidary Club 110 Waltham Rd (next to Waltham School) at 10am.

We would love to have the opportunity to welcome you.

 

Sunday 11th November 2018

NOTICES: A very warm welcome to all who worship with us today. Please join us for morning tea after the service.

Armistice Day Service 2pm TODAY at St Anne’s Anglican Church, 7 Wilsons Rd.

Wednesday Walkers 14th November Meet 9.30am in Plunket St for a walk around Spreydon. Morning tea at Marilyn & Keith’s. All welcome.

Parish Breakfast NEXT Sunday 18th November at 8.45am, hosted by the Worship committee. Come along and enjoy delicious muffins, cereal & fruit. All are welcome. Gold coin donation appreciated.

Deadline for the next ‘Messenger’ is THIS Thursday. Please email any contributions to: anneke.howie@gmail.com

The Parish Office will be closed this Friday 16th November (Show Day).

Christmas Gifts for Waltham Cottage.    These gifts for men, women, teenagers and children can be brought to Church from Sunday 25th November, and on 2nd and 9th December.    Toiletries, clothing, toys, books, biscuits, sweets etc.  All the things you would like to receive.

Risingholme Singers Christmas Concert Saturday 24th November in the Heaton Intermediate School Performing Arts Centre at 8pm.  A varied programme of Christian and light music will be presented with a very special bracket of lute music. Tickets $15 at the door or from John Shanks.

Building Report: It’s been all action outside this week as the last of the bricklaying has been completed, and new drains and sewer laid.  The suspended ceiling in the church is being installed and finally the last of the steel is being put in place on the west wall and helifix ties placed.  The painters are busy inside.  Unfortunately the kitchen benchtops won’t be ready till the end of the month and then floor coverings have to be installed.

Opawa-St Martins Anglican Parish Fair Saturday 24th November 8.30am at St Anne’s Church, 7 Wilsons Rd. Donations of books, good quality summer clothing & white elephant treasures gratefully received. Items can be collected. Contact Anna at the Office 332 6192 for details.

Sunday 4 November 2018

While our Church Building is Repaired we are meeting each Sunday at The Mineral & Lapidary Club 110 Waltham Rd (next to Waltham School) at 10am.

We would love to have the opportunity to welcome you.

 Sunday 4th November 2018

 

NOTICES: A very warm welcome to all who worship with us today. Please join us for morning tea after the service. Many thanks to Rev. David Coster for leading this morning’s worship.

Building News….There is still unplanned strengthening work to be completed on the west wall (furthest wall from the street) demanded by the engineer which means gib lining in the new bathroom cannot be completed.   More steel beams will be put in place and approx. 200 helifix ties through the bricks will be installed.

Work has begun on sealing the area in front of the church office.

Inside the gib stopping is almost complete.  Work to install the hanging ceiling in the church will commence this week and interior painting will get underway.  Kitchen joinery has been delayed by up to 4 weeks because plans had to be re-drawn.

This means we will delay any official opening until Sunday 27th January at our morning service and also a special afternoon tea for our neighbours.


All Saints Memorial Service: Once a year on a Sunday close to All Saints Day we remember in particular people close to us who have died in the past year.  We do this by remembering their names and placing a lit candle on the communion table.  There is also an opportunity for people to remember all those who are gathered in God’s eternal embrace by lighting your own candle of remembrance.

This year we will celebrate  memorial Sunday on November 11th and you are invited to forward any names of those close who have died in the past year to Anna in the office that you would appreciate being named in the service.

 Foot Clinic TOMORROW 1-4pm at Beckenham Methodist.

 Wednesday Walkers 7th November Meet 9.30am at Waltham Cottage, 201 Hastings Street East, and we will return there for coffee. The cottage is having market stalls that morning and also a sausage sizzle for lunch.  Please bring either a packet of biscuits or something for their pantry. Judith  332 1577, or 027 688 1861.  All welcome.

Our next Parish Breakfast is on Sunday 18th November (note date) at 8.45am, hosted by the Worship committee. Come along and enjoy delicious muffins, cereal & fruit. All are welcome. Gold coin donation appreciated.

Articles are now required for the next ‘Messenger’. Please email any contributions to: anneke.howie@gmail.com before Thursday 15th November.

Crafty Crafters bus trip to Ashburton this Thursday 8th November. Please be at Beckenham Methodist by 9.15am at the latest.

Christmas Gifts for Waltham Cottage.    These gifts for men, women, teenagers and children can be brought to Church from Sunday 25th November, and on 2nd and 9th December.    Toiletries, clothing, toys, books, biscuits, sweets etc.  All the things you would like to receive.

Anna will not be in the Office this Thursday. Please send in any notices by 11am Wednesday. Thanks!

Opawa-St Martins Anglican Parish Fair Saturday 24th November 8.30am at St Anne’s Church, 7 Wilsons Rd. Donations of books, good quality summer clothing & white elephant treasures gratefully received. Items can be collected. Contact Anna at the Office 332 6192 for details.

Armistice Day – A special service of hymns, readings and prayers to commemorate 100 years since the end of World War One. NEXT Sunday 11th November 2pm at St Anne’s Anglican Church, 7 Wilsons Rd. All are welcome. The service will be followed by afternoon tea.

Sunday 28th October 2018

While our Church Building is Repaired we are meeting each Sunday at The Mineral & Lapidary Club 110 Waltham Rd (next to Waltham School) at 10am.

We would love to have the opportunity to welcome you.

Sunday 28th October 2018

 NOTICES: A very warm welcome to all who worship with us today. Please join us for morning tea after the service. Many thanks to Rev. Alan Webster for leading this morning’s worship.

Building News….Scaffolding around the front of the building has been removed.  The new sliding door in the west wall has been installed and all broken windows have been replaced.  There is still unplanned strengthening work to be completed on the west wall (furthest wall from the street) demanded by the engineer which means gib lining in the new bathroom cannot be completed.   More steel beams will be put in place and helifix ties through the bricks will be installed. This hold up will mean planned opening on the 25th Nov will need to be delayed until December 16th, or even the New Year for any official opening. Work has begun on sealing the area in front of the church office.

Inside the work of installing plaster moulds around each of the small windows is now complete and gib stopping almost complete.  Work to install the hanging ceiling in the church will commence this week and interior painting will get underway.  Kitchen joinery has been delayed because the plans as drawn were inaccurate and need to be altered but the architect has been away.

We now have a clearer picture of the cost of the over 30 variations demanded by the engineer.  We estimate costs have increased by over $100,000 due to this extra work.  We have of course expressed our displeasure at this situation, and negotiated that all the engineer’s work from October will be at no cost to the parish.

Dugald has produced an estimated budget going forward which indicates that we still face costs of $413,000 (GST incl) and currently we have approx. $420,000 in available funds.  We will receive a large GST return (hopefully about $70,000) in January 2019.

Managers’ Report: Our thanks to Cyril Morris and David Hodder for completing work to transform a garage into two sheds on our property for storage purposes.

Our insurance bill for $10,000 has been paid.

Approval given to explore using the old Bible Class rooms at the rear of the property as a MenzShed.

Judith Mackay was thanked for her service to the Board of Managers and as the secretary.

We are keeping our eyes and ears open for a possible person to undertake cleaning duties in the refurbished church.  We will need to appoint someone early in the new year.


Fireside Women’s Group meets this Tuesday 30th October 7.30pm. We are fortunate that Gaynor has arranged for us to meet at her home to hear about the work that Christine Lloyd does when she volunteers on a Mercy ship, travelling to countries where poverty and hardship is a way of life.  Her Christian faith and dental assistant training help her assist others in dire need of medical assistance.  She is one of the many Christian volunteers who give their time, energy and skills to bring hope.   Enquiries: Margaret 366 8936.

 

All Saints Memorial Service: Once a year on a Sunday close to All Saints Day we remember in particular people close to us who have died in the past year.  We do this by remembering their names and placing a lit candle on the communion table.  There is also an opportunity for people to remember all those who are gathered in God’s eternal embrace by lighting your own candle of remembrance.

This year we will celebrate memorial Sunday on November 11th and you are invited to forward any names of those close who have died in the past year to Anna in the office that you would appreciate being named in the service.

Dugald away… Dugald will be away this week for a family gathering near Masterton.

 Wednesday Walkers 31st October Meet 9.30am at the Bus Exchange corner of Lichfield & Colombo Streets for a stroll around the Central City and visit to the new Library.  All are welcome. Coffee venue TBC. Sonya 027 253 3397.

Our next Parish Breakfast is on Sunday 11th November at 8.45am, hosted by the Worship committee. All are welcome. Gold coin donation appreciated.

Articles are now required for the next ‘Messenger’. Please email any contributions to: anneke.howie@gmail.com before Thursday 15th November.

 Armistice Day A special service of hymns, readings and prayers to commemorate 100 years since the end of World War One. Sunday 11th November 2pm at St Anne’s Anglican Church, 7 Wilsons Rd. All are welcome.

Crafty Crafters meets every Thursday 10am – 12 noon at Beckenham Methodist Church. New faces always welcome.

Global Voices invite you to their concert on Saturday 3rd November 7.30pm at Elmwood Auditorium. Tickets $25 or $12 for children – available from Anna in the Office.

St Mark’s Avonhead Twilight Fair, 150 Withells Rd on Friday 2 November 5 – 7pm. Bargains galore, children’s activities, plenty of food for tea. Plant stall opens at 11am. 10% of net proceeds to be donated to St Luke’s Centre.

Singalong Messiah with the Jubilate Singers. Sunday 18th November 2pm in the Transitional Cathedral. Door sales cash only.

Opawa-St Martins Anglican Parish Fair Saturday 24th November 8.30am at St Anne’s Church, 7 Wilsons Rd. Donations of books, good quality summer clothing & white elephant treasures gratefully received. Items can be collected. Contact Anna at the Office for details.